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Physique is not strength
Social media likes are not respect
Suffering in silence is not peace

About me

Life Coach, Bushcraft Instructor, Personal Trainer.

I've worked with a lot of different men. From incarcerated gang members in the US to military veterans dealing with PTSD, and from asylum seekers to senior managers.

I've learned that men need space to talk but they also need space to be men. Its one reason why the 

outdoors is very important to me but I don't work there exclusively. we can also meet online or at your place of work.

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ABOUT
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ABOUT ME

I was born in 1970.

 

I’m a qualified Lifecoach, Personal Trainer and Bushcraft Instructor.

 

I enjoy open water swimming, outdoor cooking, shooting and camping.

 

To stay fit I carry a weighted rucksack on long walks. To stay strong I use kettlebells, bags of sand, tyres, sledgehammers, rocks and ropes. I don't go to the gym.

 

I seek out the company of other men who inspire me to be the best version of myself and I support other men who want make the journey.

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ABOUT YOU

If you’ve lived on this earth long enough to reach adulthood  then you’ve already experienced grief, loss, trauma, rage and you know what it is to have everything go completely to shit.

 

On the flip side you’ve performed acts of kindness and courage and and strength. You’ve been there for your brother man and you’ve overcome challenges that looked insurmountable. You've also known love.

 

We carry these things forward with us but all too often we forget them when we need them most. Hold on to those little moments of greatness and the disasters that you survived. Let them define you. Trust me, you already have most of what you need.

Coaching

Have you ever had one of those conversations where the person you're speaking to can't wait for you to finish so they can tell you how the same thing happened to them or offer you advice you didn't want?

This won't be like that.

Strength and Fitness

Physique is not strength.

But you'd be forgiven for thinking that when you view the content on this subject that's available on social media.

That's not how I do it.

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Keynote speaking and Workshops

If you’ve lived on this earth long enough to reach adulthood  then you’ve already experienced grief, loss, trauma, rage and you know what it is to have everything go completely to shit.

 

On the flip side you’ve performed acts of kindness and courage and you’ve been there for your brother man. You’ve overcome challenges that looked insurmountable and you’ve also known love.

 

We carry these things forward with us but all too often we forget them when we need them most. Hold on to those little moments of greatness and the disasters that you survived. Let them define you.

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The Outdoors

I know, from first hand experience that, even for men who don’t want to talk, time spent in the natural environment can be restorative in ways that no spa hotel can offer.

That's why I run courses and programmes where you'll learn the key skills that will transform the most rugged inhospitable landscape into a place where you can be warm dry and comfortable.

 

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CONTACT

CONTACT

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Enquiries

Call me: 07734923388

or

email me tom@beyondthemancave.co.uk

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